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The Myth of Perfect Balance — And What to Aim for Instead

The Myth of Perfect Balance — And What to Aim for Instead
By: Judy Selby Published on: 20/10/2025

Perfect balance is a myth. Real work–life harmony is flexible, shifting with each season. Focus on what matters most, communicate openly, and let priorities ebb and flow for a more sustainable, fulfilling life.

Professional Development
The Myth of Perfect Balance — And What to Aim for Instead

Fall in Love With the Process

Fall in Love With the Process
By: Judy Selby Published on: 13/10/2025

True success isn’t built on quick wins — it’s built on consistency. Fall in love with the process, show up when no one’s watching, and trust that the quiet, daily work compounds into lasting results.

Professional Development
Fall in Love With the Process

Standard Over Feelings

Standard Over Feelings
By: Judy Selby Published on: 06/10/2025

Feelings shift, but standards stay steady. Success comes from non-negotiable habits and commitments, not moods. Lead with standards over feelings to build consistency, stay aligned with your ‘why,’ and create lasting results.

Professional Development
Standard Over Feelings

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There
By: Judy Selby Published on: 30/09/2025

The habits that got you to one level of success may hold you back at the next. Growth requires letting go of old playbooks, embracing new strategies, and evolving into the version of yourself your future demands.

Professional Development
What Got You Here Won’t Get You There

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